The Mental Edge Blog

Dive deeper into the world of mental toughness and athletic resilience with Shaun & Kelsey's expert insights.
If We Expect Our Kids to Grow, We Have to Be Willing to Look at Ourselves athlete coach parent sport psychology the parent work youth sports Oct 05, 2026

The Parent Work Series

I want to say something at the beginning of this series that may make some parents uncomfortable.

That's intentional.

Not because parents need more criticism. Most parents I ...

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Why True Community Is the Most Powerful Tool a Coach Has athlete coach community sports Aug 24, 2026

The Simplicity We’ve Forgotten
 

Youth sports is changing.

Every year we hear new language about mental performance, emotional intelligence, resilience, psychological safety, and athlete development....

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More Than a Team: Building a Culture Where Every Athlete Belongs athlete belonging coach team Jun 29, 2026

Winning games is exciting. Championships create lasting memories. But long after the final whistle blows, what young athletes remember most is how they felt as part of your team.

Did they feel valued...

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End of Season Reflection: Who Were You Playing For? athlete coach parent sports success Mar 24, 2026

As the season comes to an end, many athletes naturally begin looking back. You think about the games, the wins, the losses, the points, the moments you felt confident, and the moments you struggled. S...

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Discovering Who You Are athlete coach elite mental skills Oct 14, 2025

Many people have asked me, “So what is it that you do now?” since my recent transition out of being a collegiate hockey player.

This got me thinking about how, in general conversations, peopl

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Lance Pitlick with Kelsey King on The Hockey Journey Podcast athlete coach mental skills mental toughness Oct 16, 2024

Today, on the Hockey Journey Podcast we have a truly inspiring guest, Kelsey King, a former Division I hockey player turned Mental Performance Coach. Kelsey knows firsthand the challenges student athl...

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Myths of Mental Skills Training #3 athlete coach mental skills mental toughness parent sports psychology May 24, 2018

As I shared in past writings, gaining an edge on the competition can take on many points of focus. One can improve their strength, agility, skills, and speed. However, one of the skill sets that often...

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Myths of Mental Skills Training athlete coach mental skills sport psychology struggle Apr 23, 2018

Myths are beliefs that guide our thinking and behavior that may contain partial truth while also containing misguided information.

When I was growing up my mom would tell me I could not go swimming af...

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Who's Got Your Power? athlete coach parent power May 23, 2017

I often get calls that start off like this, “Shaun my son/daughter is really having a tough time this year. EVERYTHING has changed.” They continue by stating, “Something is off.” They conclude by sayi...

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What is it about Confidence? athlete coach confidence mental toughness parent sports Apr 07, 2017

There isn’t a day in my coaching practice where a question about confidence doesn’t come up.

Confidence is often seen as the CORE DEFICIT when performance is sub par.

I have never heard an athlete s...

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Silent Concussion athlete coach concussion parent sport psychology sports Feb 24, 2017

“The trauma that results when coaches over step the boundaries of human decency and respect.”

We have become INCREASINGLY aware and sensitive to the dangers of concussions over the last couple of yea...

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3 C Power athlete business coach parent success Feb 07, 2017

Like many, I am fascinated with the formula for SUCCESS. I realize that success has different meanings depending on the source. However, for the sake of this piece I am simply looking to understand a ...

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